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Can a Woman Who Catfished For A Living Be A Great Therapist?

Can a Woman Who Catfished For A Living Be A Great Therapist?

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Kelly Oxford
Apr 19, 2024
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Is a person able to redeem themselves if they get away with their crimes?

Now you’re wondering… what?

Let me reel it back.

A Therapist in Oregon was once a Catfisher named Stacey. She stole thousands in gifts and cash from men around the globe. They called themselves destroyed by her. They toiled for years.

How do I know this?

Because “Stacey” had a very popular Facebook profile of my photos and my stories to catfish men. 

In September 2010, I received a flood of emails.

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Ron told his story,

“I was really in love with Stacey. We’d talk on the phone for days. I sent her money and gifts. Every time we’d plan a trip, something would come up.”

I asked for an example.

“Well, once I was supposed to visit, but Stacey had an embolism and was hospitalized. She needed money for the hospital visit and I sent it to her.” 

“How much?”

“Twelve thousand.”

Another man named Chris wrote:

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And even more information came through another person who was invested in unraveling Stacey…

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How the hell was this woman managing to have money and gifts sent to her using my life while I was at home with a husband who bought me oven mitts for Mother’s Day.

This week, I recalled this event from nearly fifteen years ago and I wondered. Where is Stacey now? 

Of course, I know her full name and location, so I did a little search and discovered her in Psychology Today, as a practicing therapist.

I wasn’t sure I would, but I reached out to Stacey.

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