When a friend tells me they are ready to have a baby, I don't want to tell them my immediate thoughts. But as a friend, I want to make sure they’ve done the hard math.
I know they’ve read it all and seen it all.
We all have.
Stories of sleeplessness, depression and shitting when you push a human out of your ripping body. These are all part of the decision-making process.
But have they done the “Good Will Hunting” math?
Have they figured out BASE MASLOW?
The following is the only question a person needs to answer before they make the best decision for themselves regarding parenthood.