“I don’t know if I’m good at sex.” My friend, Teddy, says, “I’ve only been with four people. My body count is four.”
Teddy is in their early thirties and was married for four years.
”Teddy, you had sex with your four partners thousands of times.” I say, “What if you had twenty partners but only fucked them twice each? Here’s the thing, Teddy. You start from zero with every new partner because everyone orgasms for different reasons; we all have kinks.”
Teddy’s brown eyes widen. “Holy shit, you’re right.”
I figured out my kink at a young age. Right when I became sexually active, I knew exactly what my kink was. It was the most impossible thing to accomplish; literally, no one I knew was successful at it, and that made it unattainable and sexy. My kink?